It should be noted that these balls for all of us are different in size. There are very small (home-work, and even just a house), are averages, there are very large. Now, on the border of our balls. The boundary is, of course, the notion of conditional, but each of us feels it literally. Physically! On this boundary there are those moments in life that we rarely, rarely. Or just dream-plan to do. Again, it's at everyone.
For some it may be trip to the summer vacation with his family, for someone to learn to skydive, for someone to move to another job, have a child, write an article, etc. And on that border the person starts to feel not very comfortable. Experience no such or a little, and suddenly something went wrong, and suddenly I will look into the eyes of others is silly. And this is my age! .. People under stress physically, if not literally stress, coming to this border. And here comes the most important and time! What does the common man in this situation? How did he do that? There are two simple way: 1. Back in the familiar, known, predictable. 2.
Go further, getting new experiences and gradually expand its sphere. That occurs in the first case? The person experiencing the discomfort, decides for himself that he would not move forward. At the same time explain to myself that this condition in his new job he does not fit, or that girl is too beautiful for me, or all the way gone up – which really there to vacation at sea! And back to his more familiar-trodden cases. And thereby starts the reverse process. Things that were once on the border of the possible, it gradually becomes a face. Three years have not traveled anywhere. The trip becomes more than just stress, but oh-oh-oh-very stressful. On the girls have not got to know. Gradually, just talk to them becomes a problem is not that interested in, captivate. And so on. That narrowed down our ball. Became at least a few layers. Then the same scenario. Border transpired, but that she has not ceased to be abroad. And with time running away from discomfort at border, a man narrows the scope of its capabilities, and in fact, the scope of his life, until the minimum amount. Life is cramped and uninteresting. Sometimes it seems that it is meaningless. In the second case, a person gradually, step by step, get a new experience to a new life the moment. As a result, another point that had been abroad for your ball opportunities, it becomes part of it. The ball is growing, and you get more opportunities in this world. Along the way, train yourself not to move away from the border, and expand it. Therefore, to preserve youthfulness, joy and fullness of life – to expand the boundaries of the ball. That's the whole secret. And this does not necessarily make something globally expensive. Suppose that in the trifles, but regularly try to life something new! A new dish in the traditional restaurant, a new part in the traditional style of clothing for you, a good book of fantasy, if you prefer classics, or vice versa. Get a new experience in various fields, and then gradually your ball beats within the boundaries of our universe! And you guaranteed eternal youth! Svetlana Pozharova, Vadim Sokolov.