Many wonder what is NLP? In fact, what everyone wants to know is what can serve, what are the benefits that NLP to their lives in non-technical language NLP (NLP acronym) provides techniques to achieve almost instant results for many of the problems we face in everyday life. Today I will give you an example of how, using NLP, can affect strongly and extreme education and learning of your children. John was a quiet boy with few lights at the intellectual level, in the words of his first teachers, are not socially integrated. While doing his studies on the importance of stimulating effective learning, Dr. Truman heard the case of John. And, convinced the child’s hidden talent, that it was a rough diamond, was associated with him personally: encouraging the child all the time, he said he believed in him, he knew it was a special person and that had a very big target, and, above all, he gave all his affection, something that John had lacked all her life. The skills of the boy seemed to awaken from its slumber, and in a surprising way for everyone (except for Dr.
Truman), Juan was actually a little genius: performing complex reasoning and short for his age, was able to solve problems in third time than their peers, and also improved considerably by the integration group. All the time it was the same person. How can a radical cambiotan? Similar examples can be found throughout history, with geniuses like Einstein, who was considered retarded by their teachers. Now, all very nice, but what good is knowing all this in my life? I say The example has many practical applications and referrals, but not to make it longer, I’ll give you one: I invite you to try the following:. When correcting your child, do not rebuke with shouts, saying you’re bad (and even fewer strokes, which create negative associations).
Try do it with firmness and love. For example, did this wrong, but I know that you are a person with a big heart and will not do more with a pat on the head. Your tone of voice must convey confidence that, if he returns to do so, suffer the consequences (a penance is often successful) but you are telling your unconscious that he is a good person he was wrong, he made a mistake, and at the same time, you offer your unconditional love and confidence you need. All this mental level (neurological) produces completely different challenge negative or shocks. If you’re interested in learning more techniques to stimulate learning of your children, to resolve family conflicts, to modify behavior problems, fears and phobias in children or adults to effectively and permanently, I invite you to subscribe to my workshop I hope NLP is helpful! Sofia Sofia Conti Conti is an amateur researcher Neuro-Linguistic Programming.